Sunday, August 8, 2010

Low-key Sunday

Although I was absolutely exhausted after my field study, it was awesome getting together with Neung and Joy for a trip to an art exhibition and lunch at a noodle shop - together with two of her Italian colleagues and her upper level Italian students. The "museum" had a beautiful open area with fountains, falls and this beautiful Buddha ...




"Friends Forever!"




Joy, Neung and I were born on the year of the dog!!



I'm so glad I asked what was it my bowl of noodles... I gently took out my "chunk of boiled blood" with my chopsticks!



This is city hall with an enormous picture of the king and queen. It's actually her birthday this Thursday!

3728 curves roundtrip

Friday afternoon we journeyed back to Chiang Mai from Mae Hong Song (1864 curves one way)! This is Martin's shirt! It took us five hours to get back to Chiang Mai!! Too bad we couldn't get "frequent 'curve' points?" Get it!? ;o)

Before our journey, we had lunch at this beautiful restaurant. I know what I want! Soup -(number 5)!

While everyone but the driver slept, I listened to my iPod, wrote in my journal and soaked in the scenery - vibrant green colors in the form of trees, corn fields, rice fields and grass. I have to add that some of the rice fields are golden-green in color (absolutely stunning)! The hills and mountains were filled with trees and the soft white mist gently blanketed some parts ... the gentle rain did not keep some farmers from selling coconuts on the roadside or others from picking rice in the fields. The vibrant clay-colored dirt reminded me a bit of Arizona ... I chuckled at one point when I saw a sign "Sharp Curve Ahead." I thought to myself - aren't they ALL sharp?!

Passing through villages, I saw students walking or riding mopeds home (four teenagers on ONE moped with no helmets) in identical uniforms! And I can't leave out the cattle that the driver had to stop for in the middle of the road. At another point, there were chickens attemping to cross too and there was an occasional dog just lying over on the side napping, I suppose. We passed a truck transporting pigs too. Incidentally, they eat TONS of pork here. I've become somewhat vegetarian! :o)

With 112 kilometers left to go Nickelback's "If Today Was Your Last Day," was playing on my iPod. The whole song is incredible, especially driving through the hills and curves of northern Thailand. Listen! :o) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maINUv2H8A0 Just want to highlight a few verses ... "Each day is a gift and not a given right. Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind and try to take the path less traveled by." ... And for those who haven't really traveled and to whom I've sent this song to many months ago (you know who you are ;o) "It's never too late to shoot for the stars no matter who you are! So do whatever it takes because you can't rewind a moment in this life." ... "That first step you take is the longest stride." I played it for the next hour and when Manisha woke up, I introduced her to it and Nickelback! :o)

We stopped for coffee on the way back at "Coffee in Love" ... the cutest place ...

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Refugee Camp

I must preface this by saying that this blog, in particular, has been re-written from seven pages of handwritten notes, which were accumulated while on an extremely bumpy and curvy ride through the camp, others while walking and avoiding puddles, rocks, potholes, etc. and others while leaning against bamboo walls of a clinic, a laboratory and a couple of classrooms.

What are commonly referred to as refugee camps are officially called "temporary shelters" for displaced persons. Our field visit was to the Ban Mai Nai Soi Camp in Mae Hong Song (located in northern Thailand). It was a rare and unique opportunity to experience poverty, human injustice, sadness, conflict ... REALITY from these people!!

Dimensions are always good to start with – there are about 13,000 people who reside on 7 square kilometers and who cannot leave the camp at all (doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen though)!! This camp – Ban Mai Nai Soi – is only 4- 6 kilometers away from Myanmar (Burma). It took us about 20 minutes to get in from the main road via Jeep. The clay-colored dirt, tan-colored puddles of mixed mud and water, various trees (amongst them, the bamboos which were sooo tall and in some parts of our journey toward the second gate were abundant and tall enough to create a canopy) were all that was observable with an occasional rice field.



You can observe the thick green vegetation and deciduous trees (whose leaves are ENORMOUS – long enough and wide enough for me to hide under). These visuals were accompanied with the sounds of birds, crickets and cicadas.

At some points it got really steep! Fortunately, the jeep was able to just take off as we gained some grip from a random strip of concrete road, then we were back to puddles, rocks and mud, hanging on for dear life to the metal handles above our heads and on the side of the Jeep!


Once we passed the first of two gates, conversation amongst the four of us subsided without warning. While driving toward the second gate, there were a few men on mopeds buzzing by and some women/men walking and carrying empty circular wicker baskets on their backs. Later, we learned that they "unofficially" leave the camp to earn some money to feed their families because the rations (rice, sugar, beans, dried chili, cooking oil, salt, and Asia mix) are simply not enough. Some women pick veggies within the camp or weave; they later sell these items for extra money.


I'll try to capture as much as I can in words because we were forbidden to take pictures, once we crossed the second gate, where we had to present our passports and register.


View of the second gate from the inside
Back in the truck … It was a sight to see these bamboo-made homes nestled, or stacked, on the hills. They’re not allowed to use materials such as concrete and wood because a temporary shelter it cannot be made of these items. You can see the shops on the right are only made of bamboos and leaves.

We drove by a laboratory, a school and a mother holding her child (couldn’t have been more than a year old) in a dull-colored wrap. The child had a yellow smeared dot, I later found out – made of tumeric - between his eyes the size of a silver dollar and a line going down the center of his nose. This is part of their culture – a symbol of beauty - a way to identify themselves as being Burmese on Thai soil.

Our official introduction began with an enthusiastic greeting by the commander of the camp. He, along with a number of others, thoroughly educated us about the camp as well as their job/function within it. What was interesting were the different ethnicities living within the camp such as the long neck women (those with rings around their necks) or those with huge spacers as earrings. Thankfully, there are NGOs that provide for the refugees! In addition to charcoal, each adult is provided with a monthly food ration of: 15 kg rice, 1.2 kg beans, 125 grams sugar, 23 grams dried chilli, 1 litre cooking oil, 500 grams iodised salt, 0.5 kg fortified flour - period!

Rather than give you more facts and figures, which are also important, let me try to act as a digital camera. In the three hours that we sat and listened to government officials, NGOs, etc., we sat on plastic chairs that were neatly arranged on hard-packed soil where animals were roaming freely. This one particular chicken had about 10 chicks following her all pecking away at the ground as she stood watch on one leg. At one point you could hear a rooster outside of our conference area; upon hearing this, the chicks all huddled in the corner together and attached to their mother. One chick stayed right under mother hen; you could see its little beak every once in a while appear from beneath its mother’s wing. Incidentally, I bought a bunch of clothes (3 shirts and 2 skirts) for 750 baht/$25 from the women who patiently sat in the conference area for several hours waiting for our class to end, just to make a baht!

We actually had a chance to walk around. Unlike a few members from my group who have actually worked in other refugee camps, this was my first experience making it rather surreal. The conditions were awful! It made me appreciate the "simple things" even more. Random "things" like clean feet, a comfortable bed, anything I want to eat, AC!!, and on a more complicated level, access to world renowned health facilities, the opportunity to obtain a great education, the ability to work ... These people don't have this! When Vicky (Northern Ireland) and Tom (Australia) said that this camp was much better than the ones they have seen, I was horrified to think about how much worse can this get!?

To give you some idea ... After lunch, Ian and I stood outside of the "conference area" chatting and watching white and yellow butterflies fluttering around an area with small purple flowers. Off, in the not so far distance, was this young, fit man bathing himself in a gray Speedo. Obviously, there is no, absolutely NO privacy. There was no shower head, just a concrete basin with clean water and a plastic container with a handle that he would use to dump water on himself. While we were talking about our morning, this man shampooed and scrubbed himself from top to bottom, followed by rinsing, drying and putting on dry clothes - all in the open for everyone (other fellow camp dwellers, the butterflies and yes, the Rotary Fellows) to see! All I could think about was (sigh) ... how grateful I am for my privacy, my rights, my safety, my shower, my education ... Whether tangible or intangible, simple or complicated, they are basic needs! For many, they are assumed and expected - but for others, they are not!

We got back into the Jeeps and drove by some classrooms. As we drove by, I noticed all the children's faces pressed up against the bamboo "windows" smiling. I smiled and waved and as the truck moved forward, little waving hangs poked through the small grated openings and accompanied the movement of the truck - it reminded me of watching people do "the wave" at a baseball game. (Gosh, writing without pictures is tough)! I had to do everything not to begin sobbing because in the end, don't we smile and wave in the same language? If we could just smile and wave to everyone, the world could really just be a better place!!!!!

Going into the classrooms was great! Math, music, dance ... seeing those kids learning was encouraging! I noticed that the boys tend to dress in western style where the girls wear traditional dress. In music class they were all singing to the traditional Burmese songs played from two guitars.

The Commander also brought us to their medical laboratory, which consisted of one small room with one microscope and prepared slides that were used to test for malaria. Twenty members from his staff contracted the disease, but he reassured us not to worry as hadn't gotten it! The two large windows to the lab do not have glass, or blinds, or curtains - nothing! The hospital was even more eye-opening! There was a woman kneeling on a vinyl matress with her newborn ... the I.V. looked scary, not to mention the chicken running around in the adjoining room ... Like the lab, it was open!! To think that some people leave Burma to live in this camp because of better medical care.

The last area we were shown was the "departure area." Here the refugees are given instruction from luggage requirements to their "new life in the U.S." It was sort of neat (for lack of a better term) to see the American flag hanging on the wall and not too far a picture of the king and queen of Thailand.

As we were leaving, the children and older students were all walking back home from school. They could see us in the truck and as we drove back toward the exit, we reciprocated smiles, giggles, waves ... Some of the girls giggled behind their umbrellas when Ben greeted them; it was too sweet.

Without showing you pictures, I hope I've provided a snapshot of what I've seen. Moreover, I hope I conveyed to you my feelings as I walked through this temporary shelter, listened to the Burmese speak their language, saw the children who haven't experienced life beyond 7 km of bordered space, etc. I will forever remember my visit and be able to support, understand and identify with a "refugee," should our paths cross. This would not be unusual as it's a "small world!" And the U.S. accepts a maximum of 80,000 refugees from Thailand, Nepal, Uganda, Kenya - to name a few of many.

Check out this link! Sam sent it to us the other day!

A rice field right on the outskirts of the camp.

Here is the Commander of the camp standing amongst us. Ben (Ivory Coast) asked him to recall his "best and worst moment" of his job. Without hesitation he mentioned that seeing the smiles of those getting on trucks to officially leave the camp for resettlement - to obtain a better life; this was definitely a "best." His worst moments are dealing with conflict between his staff and those in the camp as it is difficult maintaining order to benefit the majority.
The following day we visited the IMO (International Organization for Migration), which allowed us to gain an understanding of the process that refugees go through to resettle to a third country! The paperwork, medical exam, cultural orientation are obvious preparations, however it is worthy to note that there are simple, simple activities of daily living that they are taught - things we wouldn't think about because we live in societies as refined and cultured individuals. Mothers of infants are taught to properly change and dispose of diapers, all are taught to use a western toilet, how to order a hamburger, and what to expect on the plane (that would also include how to get in and out of the toilet! I think a few of us can admit that getting out of them may have been challenging)! Bottom line is that they're frightened all around, but want a better life for their children! After hearing about this and seeing, first hand, where they've lived and what they've gone through, to be empathetic and be welcoming to them (or any refugee) is the least any of us could do. After all, they're a fellow human being ...

In this photo Dragan shows us a big white bag that accompanies each refugee family on their flight to their third country. Because they don't have any documents (just a letter from the embassy), this clearly identifies them (origin, destination, number of people in their family, etc.). Along with this, and like all other passengers, they're only allowed to bring 20 kilograms and a carry-on. Imagine, settling to a third country - your new "home" with less than 50 pounds of your personal belongings?

If they come to the U.S. there are five points of entry - Los Angeles, Chicago, New York/JFK, Newwark and Miami - but they live in various places. Ian mentioned a distinct number of Burmese refugees living in Indianapolis.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Shoes ...

They may look like a bunch of shoes on a large wooden rack to you, but they're much more than that. Each day, they are filled by young women who have been victims of labor and sexual exploitation or for those who are at risk. Their feet have “walked” through experiences that many of us can’t even imagine. The New Life Center, a Christian based organization, that we visited mainly works with women from the tribal communities. As we sat in plastic chairs, under a shaded area, listening to the chirping birds, Kit Ripley gave us a historical background of the tribal people of Northern Thailand and how the girls wound up at the Center.

TRAGEGY AND HUMANITY

Certainly, there are isolated incidents, like natural disasters, or major events such as 911, that make headline news, upsetting us as viewers and sometimes even as victims. This is what the media does! Then, there are continuous tragic crimes that don’t get the same attention, like those of human trafficking that don’t only happen in Asia but throughout the world, even the U.S. There are over 200,000 victims of human trafficking in the U.S. each year. That was news to me! http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=128873444&sc=ipad&f=1001%3ehttp://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=128873444&sc=ipad&f=1001

Here is our director, Jenn, with Kit Ripley from New Life.


On Sunday, we visited the New Life Center, a place which houses rescued victims of human trafficking, followed by lectures at Chiang Mai University regarding the issues of human trafficking, prevention and rehabilitation of victims.

Detailed stories of some girls ... One young woman is from China. At the age of nine, her mom died and her father brought her to Burma, where they resided for a year. He then gave her to a family (she mentioned that she was unsure if money was exchanged), who hung on to her for a few days and then passed her on to another family who sent her to school but gave her the responsibility of caring for their younger children before and after school. At the age of twelve, the “father” and other men of this family raped her about 3-4 times a week. For two years this went on until she got her menstrual cycle. Realizing she could get pregnant, she confided in a teacher, who fortunately knew the proper protocol. In time, the father was convicted but fled ... Meanwhile, she is currently being charged with illegally crossing borders at the age of nine. Now, at the age of 14, she is at the New Life Center and is creating a fresh start for herself. When asked if she would repatriate to China, she said that she wouldn't even remember the town in southern China from where she came .... (Ah, the injustice) ...

Another girl at the Center was a victim of labor exploitation. She worked in a factory from the age of 4 to 14. When she was asked what she would like from the Center, her two requests were to go to school and find her mother. While she was getting her desired education, and as destiny would have it, the Thai government located her mother working at a nearby factory. In the “time” that followed leading to their meeting, she made her mother a quilt. Kit ended the story with this wonderful reunion and heartfelt gift; however I wanted to know how the girl was progressing at New Life. It was so hot (surprise-suprise) and I was already exhausted (this weather takes the life out of you!), yet knew that I only had a window of about 10 seconds as I was walking toward the van to ask Kit about this young lady. “So, what happened to that young girl?” After a quick sigh from Kit, I could tell the story didn’t have such a happy ending. Apparently, she left the Center early because she would sneak out to meet a boy that she grew fond of. Vulnerability and, one could even surmise, the strong desire to fill the void of love that she never got from her mom, led her to marry a man from a nearby hill tribe. With a child to raise in a miserable environment, her regret for not continuing her education is expressed when she walks back to the Center and verbalizes it to the other girls who are there and wishes that she would have chosen to pursue her dream to go to school. Her feet – her shoes – walk through life in sadness and with regret. The other young women at the Center, whose feet fill the shoes you see, will hopefully take the opportunity for a better life at New Life.

On a positive note, Rotary is doing great things.


I was pleased to learn how education was a priority, to hear how much they loved school, and to see all the books.


Our “tour” ended at the Center’s store, which contained items that the young girls made in their home economics classes. It was filled with stuffed animals adorned in tribal dress, jewelry, quilts, pillow covers, satin handbags, quilted handbags, satin wallets, hand-stitched Christmas ornaments … Without hesitation, I picked up a silk stitched shoulder bag with randomly cut shapes and sizes of vibrant colored cloth. Tears started streaming down my cheeks as I realized what this bag meant to me. It clearly represented the different young women who had distinctive horrific pasts, all victims of human trafficking, yet all holding a common goal – that of having a better life. Metaphorically, it spoke volumes to me. The quilts were also attracting me with their beautiful warm colors or carefully arranged patterns. I couldn’t help but wonder how therapeutic and healing it must have been for them to be able to design and sew quilts in a safe environment of love and hope. The work on the quilts was of quality, from the durable material to the hand-stitching, but I couldn’t justify spending the money (handmade quilts are expensive). In my search, I found a quilted shower curtain with beautifully arranged pieces of blue fabric. Incidentally, it is one of my favorite colors as it reminds me of bodies of water, more specifically the sound of the deep Atlantic Ocean near “home.” Additionally, I can recall the intense azure color of the sky driving to Middlebury College in Vermont on a clear summer’s day back in the day. Yes, I love blue and, at the very last minute, decided to buy it and use upon my arrival back to Bangkok as a bed cover. Surely, it would brighten my dormitory room at Chulalongkorn University, providing me with auditory memories of the ocean and visual memories of a New England summer sky, especially after hours of intense classes. Great! I justified my purchase as the penultimate customer in the Center’s shop! Surprisingly, as I waited to check out, Kit introduced me to the artist/seamstress of my curtain. Kit proudly mentioned that Chang just graduated from high school. The only question that I couldn’t think of asking her was how old she was. Kit said she was 23! How ironic that it is my lucky number. Of course, I told her that, thanked her for making such a beautiful curtain that I will utilize as a bed cover and wished her the very, very best! Isn't it beautiful?! It totally brightens up my room and I will forever remember her smile and how she brightened my day at New Life! What do you think Barbara? I can't wait to show it to you along with the rest of my handcrafted items.


After such an emotionally draining day, some of us went for a foot massage, which always includes a brief head/neck/shoulder massage. In addition to using their hands, they also use their forearms and elbows – very interesting – but it killed!!!!!!!! Every time the masseuse would press her elbows on my lower neck, I would whine … and she would giggle!!

After lecture on Tuesday on the prevention of human trafficking, our site visits were to World Vision and Gabfai. http://www.gabfai.com/ The latter was my favorite as it dealt with utilizing theatre in communities, schools, etc. to empower children and raise public awareness about human trafficking … Check out the founder's shirt! A FLAME CAN LIGHT A THOUSAND CANDLES!!


Erinma and I took advantage of a photo op!!

The evening was low-key and concluded with a light dinner with Inday and Nancy (USA) (curry soup and a big salad). A great majority went for a MAH-ssage (as the Australians pronounce it); I, quite frankly, need a break from all sorts of massages (foot, oil, Thai, back) as I’ve averaged more than one a week!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Exhausted!

Physically, mentally, intellectually and emotionally – I am exhausted and it’s only the middle of the week!! I will try to sum up as best as I can what it is that I’ve seen done, heard, learned and most importantly experienced in the last four days! Tomorrow will begin our 5 hour bus ride to the Refugee Camp located in the hills, north of where we are now (Chiang Mai). The drive, for the first 40 minutes is straight (yes, I will be doing some of this blog on my ride) and then, the curves begin – 1,864 to be exact! To be sure that I won’t get sick it will be a semi-fasting day! :o) By the way, the doll is made by one of the residents from New Life … read next blog …


Check out the airport in Bangkok – very modern looking, no? And notice the picture of the King; I tell you, his pictures – taken throughout his life – are everywhere!!!


Here are Tito and Inday waiting at the airport – both Philippino. You’ve already met Inday, but Tito has been living in Cambodia for the last 10 years working for an NGO.

The airport is unique looking ...



... and the aerial view made me think of "all roads lead to Bangkok!" Flight time was only an hour!


Our hotel (Chiang Mai Gate) is quite lovely as you can see. Manisha and I are roommates and that has been a lot of fun! When we’re not giggling, our time in northern Thailand has been more than “sandwich packed” with lectures, discussions, lectures, more discussion and field visits!!!



BUDDHA, BUSY STREETS AND BIZAAR!
Saturday afternoon was free from lecture, but a small group of us went searching for temples (wats) and viewing the beautiful and unique Buddhas within them. On the way, I saw some men playing checkers by a food stand (there are countless food stands) on the sidewalk.

Chiang Mai is quite quaint!


Ian was talking to one of the monks, whose name was “A.” What a funny, funny young man; he had such a wonderful disposition and sense of humor. He and Ian had very interesting and deep philosophical discussion, while Erinma and I listened and then took our pictures with him. When Erinma started getting closer to him I immediately said, rather forcefully, “Don’t touch him!” As women, we are not able to touch monks (even shake their hands or give them anything by hand). The reasoning is to stop desire (sexual) between monks and women. Should a woman want to give a monk an offering (food, flowers, etc.), she should place it next to him and he will pick it up with the draped cloth from his robe. Any physical contact is seen as evil; if contact does take place, and depending on the Buddhist way he follows, it may result in him going through daylong cleansing ritual rights or even disrobing! Who would want to be responsible for that!? Being Italian doesn’t help the situation as I’m always touching everything!! Needless to say, I was super conscious!! Attire in the temple and around the monks is conservative, which is why I have my jacket on as shoulders need to be covered. As you can see, I kept my distance!!


Here are some pictures of the outside and inside of the temple. It was wonderful to be there while the monks were all chanting. In many of the wats, there was a picture of the King when he was a monk many, many years ago. All boys at some point in their lives become a monk, for a minimum of what use to be 3 months (now it’s as little as a month) as it brings great honor to the parents.




Vicky (Northern Ireland) is having coconut juice and I had dragon fruit, which tastes like a tasteless kiwi. The color is vibrant and enticing, isn't it?!


The following day (Sunday), we had an interesting lecture with Lt. Colonel Apichart Hattasin, (pictured here), a social worker and an NGO worker. http://edition.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/asiapcf/07/05/thailand.pedophiles/index.html#fbid=PpYpDnukJpc&wom=false

After class, and in the afternoon we went to Doi Suthep where we climbed up to this ornate temple. Many Buddhists were there praying and making offerings. I did too and was even blessed by a monk. His assistant tied a robe bracelet around my left wrist. Check it out below!! It was an amazing and spiritual experience! From the very first time that I came to Thailand, when I first became exposed to Buddhism, I came to realize and strongly feel that there is no “right” religion to follow and personally feel very comfortable in a synagogue, church or temple. But, I still need to learn about many more religions …




This is the kind monk who blessed me by placing a bunch of bamboo twigs in a bowl of water.

Here is an offering of flowers and eggs ...

At night Inday and I conquered the Night Bazaar for ... more shopping!!
The next day consisted of 12 hours of lectures on human trafficking and a Rotary meeting. So after lecture, we went to the Rotary dinner close to Chiang Mai. Look at our dinner area!

As we got off the elevator, we were welcomed with leis made from jasmine! It was awesome. Here is a picture of the men in our group all dressed up!

Here is a photo of dessert. The fruit is presented in a very artistic manner and always delicious. I’ll have to remember to pick up a couple of knives that cut the fruit in a zig-zag pattern. So, so beautiful! I can already tell you that I will miss papaya when I go back home!

After a couple of hours of sitting for our meal, I’ve developed an appreciation for my body and the benefits of yoga. Even with that, my back, my neck, my feet! – everything was killing me!!!!

Then ... Thai dancing! And we all did it pretty well, if I may say so myself thanks to Jenn's dancing lessons!

Look at how far this woman's hands can bend back! Thai women begin to stretch the hands of their infant daughters back at an extremely young age, to prepare them for traditional Thai dancing should they decide to pursue it!